Triangulation: The Narcissist’s Tool to Lower Your Vibration and Block Your Manifestations
Introduction
As you progress in your manifestation journey in the matrix, you will inevitably trigger narcissists in your life and begin to experience more discomfiting interactions with them that leave you feeling drained and confused. Their intention is to help themselves feel better by trying to make you feel worse about yourself and your accomplishments. Have you ever left a conversation with a narcissist feeling like you were being measured unfavorably to someone else, feeling completely drained and even physically shaken afterward? This dynamic is called triangulation.
Triangulation is a psychological manipulation tactic frequently employed by narcissists to create discord and manipulate their targets. At its core, triangulation involves the narcissist comparing you unfavorably to another person, often highlighting traits or achievements that you may lack. This comparison is designed to lower your self-esteem and make you feel inadequate, even if you were previously feeling confident and happy.
The impact of triangulation on one's vibration can be quite devastating to your manifestation journey. When a narcissist strategically praises others while ignoring or belittling your efforts, it can create a sense of doubt, insecurity, and emotional turmoil. This not only affects your mental and emotional well-being but can also severely lower your vibrational frequency, which is crucial for manifestation. A lowered vibration disrupts the energy flow needed to attract and manifest your desired reality, creating obstacles on your path to achieving your goals. Triangulation can also make you question your direction and goals, leading to potential self-sabotage.
Awareness of triangulation and its effects is the first step toward protecting yourself from such manipulative tactics. If you grew up with this dynamic, it will hopefully help you re-write any negative narratives you constructed about yourself due to triangulation. By recognizing when and how triangulation is being used against you, you can begin to dismantle its power over your emotions and self-worth.
Healing from these experiences involves reclaiming your confidence, setting strong boundaries, and maintaining a high vibration despite external attempts to lower it. Understanding and counteracting triangulation is essential for anyone committed to their spiritual growth and manifestation journey, ensuring that you remain aligned with your true purpose and resilient against negativity.
Understanding Triangulation
Triangulation involves the narcissist introducing a third party into their interactions with you to create division, induce jealousy, and generate feelings of inadequacy. Its purpose is to create discord, lower your vibration, and manipulate you.